Well lovebirds, Valentine’s is right around the corner. Cupid is already putting on his cute war paint and sharpening up his arrow of love. No matter how deep your love is, things can become really topsy-turvy and the entire plan of your Valentine’s Day can go just go kaput if you don’t pay enough attention to minute details such as likes, dislikes and the preferences of the one you plan to spend this Valentine’s with. So before you make all the love-filled mushy plans and finalize your Valentine’s day goals, make sure you take proper care of all the important things that would please both of you on this special day of celebrating love. Speaking of which, there are several horror-like ways of celebrating Valentine’s Day with your partner.
Here are some of the absolute worst ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day:
1. Overspending on Cliché Gifts: Don’t Buy Odd Gifts
Buying an overly generic gift like cheap chocolates or mass-produced teddy bears can feel thoughtless and uninspired. Make sure you buy personalized gifts for your partner. For instance, gifting a spa voucher shall eat a lot of time during the day. Gifting kitchen appliances or furnishing decors shall not seem thoughtful and love-filled but if your partner likes them then go for it. Learn to prioritize your partner’s preferences.
2. Overdoing PDA- No…No: Public Displays of Affection
Going overboard with PDA in public spaces can make both you and your partner uncomfortable. You need to avoid expressing too much of mushy love because it may make your partner feel a little awkward or uncomfortable. The main objective of this special occasion is to make each other happy, not awkward.
3. Breaking Up or Having a Serious Talk
Choosing Valentine’s Day to discuss relationship issues or break up can turn a day meant for love into a painful experience. I mean seriously, of all the days you choose this day! Come on. If you want your partner to cry at least make them cry because you gave them an expensive and thoughtful gift instead of bombarding them with break-ups or serious talks.
4. Making yourself the gift
If you plan to drape yourself on a red velvet comforter with a big bow on your junk and say, “Here’s your Valentine’s Day present!” just stop right there and reconsider. You are not Justin Timberlake. You may be a grand prize according to your mom, but this is not the day to test that.
5. Obeying “Don’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day” request
Don’t fall for this trap! At the very least, get a nice card and write your heartfelt feelings below the Hallmark sentiment. Yes, it’s a commercial holiday for advertising and selling the what-nots, but ignore it at your peril unless you want to hear “Remember that year when you didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day?” for the rest of your relationship’s life.
6. Gifting Items from Exes
Giving a gift that was previously given to you by an ex (like jewelry or a framed photo) is a surefire way to make things awkward.
7. Don’t Use the Phone
For God’s sake, avoid using your phone on your Valentine’s date because your partner deserves an undivided attention. No matter how important your phone is, you have to realize your partner should be your number one priority on this day.
8. Don’t Ask For A Strong Commitment All of A Sudden
Well, it may seem a romantic and serious step but Valentine’s day is just not the perfect day for it. Take proper time and patience to understand what your partner thinks about taking the relationship to the next level.
9. Don’t Give Out A Wrong Signal
If you are good at hiding your emotions, it may be risky for your relationship as they may think that you have no interest in them. So, gulp down emotion potion and be a little expressive during Valentine’s day date.
10. Forgetting the Day Completely
Trust me, you would rather forget where you put your favorite pair of shoes, but this!!! Totally unacceptable. Overlooking Valentine’s Day entirely, especially if your partner values it, can lead to feelings of neglect and disappointment. You don’t want to make this the worst February 14 of your life.
11. Don’t Keep Your Expectations High
While you wish to enjoy the day to the fullest with your partner and wish to be pampered, don’t expect huge romantic gestures as your partner might have a different notion of celebration.
Conclusion
Celebrating with thoughtfulness and genuine connection is key—avoiding these pitfalls can help create a more enjoyable experience!
